Situationship Part 2: This is for the better right?

“You made me feel like I can be a woman…”

Why does doing the right thing by a person you’re involved with hurts sometimes? Like allowing them to walk away from you due to the reality of your situation. Realizing that this ”perfect” situation is harder than you thought. It’s sucks to want them to stay and wanting to let them go to be happy. You have to find the balance in allowing them to leave, expressing your feelings, giving them space, and/or still being the “friend” you want to be. It’s like a goodbye, but a hello to something else. In this instance, you have two paths that deserve to be fulfilled and it’s hard to have the other person involved. Although you wanted the other person to see you win it will have to be from afar. You can still see each other win, but not on a romantic level. Even though I try to be the bigger person and adult it sucks. I can say in my case I cried. I Cried a lot!! I wanted to call and plead my feelings, but I knew that wouldn’t change anything when a for sure and confident person makes up their mind. I stand firm in knowing that I expressed myself in a way that made it perfect. Regardless of the timeline, the posts, and the initial breakaway it was everything it needed to be for me. It just crazy how you thought you were the best person to share with, but you were really the best person for the right time. Maybe you added value, allowed the person to be open, gave them space or room to breathe, or some type of stress relief. It’s just why does it make you drop a tear to do the right thing by a person you care about ? Maybe it wasn’t what you think it is was. Maybe, it’s because you feel like they thought you weren’t enough and didn’t want to say it. I say you can’t focus on that it’ll just make it worst. Gather and release so you can start over again. Life has a funny way of showing you what you like to get you what you need.